How to Meet Beautiful And Fascinating Women Online - The Pros And Cons of Online Dating

If you desire to plunge into the monolithic pool of possible that is online dating you must first see whether it's worthwhile and ultimately whether it's compensate for you. Here are some professionals and cons:

Pros:

· If you're shy then online dating is a batch less daunting than walking up and sparking up a conversation with individual you've never met - online it's a batch easier to begin chatting

· There are a batch of women out there - like I said there is a monolithic pool of possible days of the month and you can speak to them from the comfortableness of your life room

· If you've signed up to a paying site, you cognize that the person you're talking to is also single and interested in meeting person new and exciting - this is never a warrant in the existent world

· Cost wise it's very cheap, compared to taking her out for an expensive meal...

· And it intends that when you make eventually ran into her human confront to face you will cognize her already and the whole day of the month will be something particular rather than something stressful

· Every clip you log on and confabulate to person you acquire to cognize them that small spot better, no clip is wasted. Compare that to all the money and hours spent buying misses drinks only for them to go forth afterwards!

· If you begin chatting to individual and it's not really working out, ending the human relationship is a batch less slippery online than it would be human confront to face.

Cons:

· There somewhat of a societal stigma and some people are embarrassed to state friends or household that they've been dating online

· Sometimes people don't state the truth online, but really, that also haps in the existent human race too.

· In the past you wouldn't cognize what the person looked like, but with the coming of video-link and web photographic cameras that isn't really a job any longer.

· Online you acquire to cognize someone's personality but until you ran into human confront to face you won't cognize if you have got the physical connection.

Overall, there are so many advantages to the dating human race and many of the negative facets use not only to online dating but to dating generally.

An Introduction to The Art of Seduction

The art of seduction is the art of getting what you want without fighting. In other words, in a successful seduction, the seducer gets everything he or she wants from the 'victim' willingly, to the point where the 'victim' goes out of their way to help the seducer get what he/she wants.

Of course, I am putting the word 'victim' in quotes because although the skillful seducer gets everything desired, the 'victim' doesn't necessarily feel victimized. In fact, in a good successful seduction, the victim never feels pressure but gives out of their own desire to please the seducer.

One somewhat unknown fact about seduction is that it's something created by women. Yes, the Don Juan's of the world are known as the great 'Seducers' but they did not create the art of seduction.

As explained in "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Green, in past times it was more common for men to be merciless and as a result women became almost helpless. Yes, she could entice a man but once a man gets sex she loses her power. This was overcome by women such as "Bathsheba, from the Old Testament; Helen of Troy; the Chinese siren Hso Shi; and the greatest of them all Cleopatra", who created seduction as a way to gain power.

In Cleopatra's case, after she was thrown out by the pharaoh (her brother/husband, as was the tradition there, then) she showed up at a meeting of another conqueror rolled up in a rug. When the rug was unrolled she stood up in stunning cloths and makeup. Everyone was speechless. That night Julius Caesar became her lover.

Cleopatra continued to dazzle Julius Caesar with sensual and visual delights, becoming the male fantasy figure that is an underlying part of all male psychology (more about that later). In other words, having sex with her wasn't enough, she created a desire to possess her. And when Caesar was most seeking her attention, she would withdraw and leave him wondering what he did wrong. Then he would strive to make things better thereby becoming more her slave everyday. She did reclaim her throne.

In the 17th century men appropriated women's techniques of appearance, style and dramatics and combined it with "soft words", which are a weak spot for women, to overcome their resistance to sex. This was an age when women had more freedom and choice. Many of these seducers were Spaniards from which the Don Juan legend sprung.

In our times women are treated less like property, giving them a sexual and political freedom that they haven't had in an average of 4000 years (2000 yrs in Europe and 6000 yrs in the middle east -approx- matriarchies dominated before then). So of course previous tactics of getting a women, such as arranged marriages and as part of business or political deals has ceased to work. (At least, in the west).

This means that now more than ever, seduction has become a key method of gaining power, both sexual or social.

Can seduction skills help anyone? Yes. If you are not good looking, it simply doesn't matter. You can still seduce successfully. Cleopatra was plain looking but her use of make up made her extraordinary, by being able to capture the male fantasy figure in her persona; which is nothing new, women know this today just as Neanderthal women knew about it in their time, and there is even evidence that the Neanderthals mined for red ochre to use as lipstick (yeah, that they were 'savages' may be a myth...the tradition of burying the dead and the domestication of the dog can also be traced to Neanderthals - for more read, Primitive Mythology By Joseph Campbell).

Gabriele D'Annunzio, was a journalist in the 1880's in Roman society, who was so ugly that men didn't care if he talked with their wives. But when he talked to women, some said it was like church bells, other said it was hypnotic, and still others claimed he would transform into the God Apollo. He knew just how to flatter a woman, suggesting sex and romance without necessarily doing anything, making their hearts flutter. He married the daughter of a Duchess and continued to grow is social and literary stature through the help of powerful women.

For women, for whom marriage was like slavery, found excitement and pleasure in the idea of a man who was totally absorbed in them and with whom they could let go of the huge social role of civility, commitment and loyalty that she is expected to maintain in society. At a lecture I attended, I actually heard a successful 'intellectual' claim, with complete assurance, that "chastity is a woman's greatest virtue", which underlines the role she is expected to play.

The seducer offers her a break from conventional reality and she is a willing victim. Just as a man is when faced with a 'Marilyn Monroe' like persona, who stimulates him in a way that is very powerful and effective.

The Real Secret To Be Instantly More Attractive To Women

Here's an instant formula on how to be more attractive to women. Stop being easy.

The reality is most of guys are just way too easy. Unfortunately, this is not attractive to women. The common mistake is that when guys receive the 'signals of interest' from women (for example, when they smile, ask you questions, touch you, etc), they get comfortable and immediately move to develop rapport with the women. Unfortunately, this is a mistake, and often they will find that their target would lose interest in them.

The reason for this is often a woman would yearn for a man who challenges her. She wants the feeling of not being able to get the man without substantial effort on her side. She wants to work to be rewarded. If she thinks that she has sorted you out and has you under her thumb, you will lose her.

Remember to continually keep her guessing by using this technique called the 'push-pull'. If you want to retain her interest, be more unpredictable and create more tension between you. This is the reason women are attracted to jerks is exactly this. Jerks are challenging, and they keep women guessing about what's coming next.

However, I am not recommending you to be an all-out jerk in order to be more attractive to women. By being a jerk, you will eventually push her away, which defeats the purpose of the entire interaction in the first place . The key here is to balance being challenging and cocky with humor and empathy. The true player knows how to calibrate and paces the interaction between himself and the woman she desires so that he is challenging but remains accessible at the same time.

So here's how to be more attractive to women instantly. Just stop being easy, and start being a challenge.

Affection vs Attraction

What is the difference between affection and attraction?

Which one would you rather have women feeling for you?

Attraction is the path that leads to sex. Affection is the path or reality of caring and niceness but lack of sexual interest.

When a woman feels affection for you, you're probably too much of a nice guy. She may think of you as 'just a friend' or maybe even a potential husband who has 'provider' stamped all over his forehead.

Maybe you'd be someone she can end up bossing around if you remain complacent. Affection is something you feel for a puppy dog.

Attraction is something entirely different. When a woman feels the powerful emotions of attraction and attributes it to you, all kinds of interesting things are going to happen.

Being seen as a 'lover' is different than the social archetype of being a provider.

whether you are emotional and understand women or not, you can still get to sex because of the attraction and emotion SHE is going through.

If a woman feels affection for you, things will rarely lead to sex. When she loses attraction in a long-term relationship, there will usually be less sex.

Women who are out of touch with their own natural character will not have sex that often. women who are in touch with their natural character and emotion will have the ability to create
more relationships with men instead of closing them off from the beginning.

It does take more to open a new relationship with a 'Prada' or independent woman than it does with a natural woman. Why? Because of her logical and conscious development and mind, she
is blocking her natural intuitive abilities to respond to men and open her own path to relationships.

She is less likely to feel attraction because she usually saves it for her own private fantasy world. She differentiates it from the harsh, cold corporate climage that she lives in daily.

These women are more likely to feel affection for men instead of attraction because of the amount of habitual time they use their brain logically as well as the personal power that they have.

They are used to controlling relationships and not coming in second place so they tend to take relational authority over most of their men quite often. It's just their tendency.

If they're around a really strong man, they can feel attraction but it will often be fleeting once the heat of the moment is over.

Prickteases can feel massive attraction once a man can (instantly) break through her military-grade social front. Once he can see that she's not a sex object or a slut, she's more in touch with her emotions than the independent women usually are.

She can feel attraction and response to a man but if he's not an Alpha male, he'd better be able to see through her social powers in order to reach her natural attraction instead of her
gold-digging (social) response.

Affection is puppy love. Attraction is mad love and physicality.

You can determine how women view you because you are the one who chooses what type of relationship you're going to have with women.

If you want to represent the provider type and having women feel affection for you ('awww') then just listen to what mainstream dating teachers say. Buy her gifts and trade your money for her time.

If you want to turn her on and lead towards sex, then portray attributes of the lover. Keep money out of it, focus on raising her F.A.R.M. (female attraction response model) and remain the relational authority between the two of you.

Remember, women are the response to YOU as the stimulus. Choose your path and communicate those things that you want to communicate.

What It Means When A Woman Tells You That She Is Busy

Women have so many ways of keeping men they aren't attracted to at bay that it isn't even funny (once you know about them it is funny though).

A real popular one women use that you would think wouldn't work on men, yet it does is;

I am really busy right now with (school, work, family, etc...)

When a woman tells a man this, at best he should wait for her to call him once her "busyness" has come to end.

The truth is that a majority of the time when a woman says that she is busy she really means;

I would rather deal with (school, work, family, etc...) than spend any amount of time with you.

The reality o how men respond to a woman like this, however, is really amazing as they continue to call and pursue the woman, even though that is the only thing they shouldn't be doing if they have any hopes of actually meeting up with her.

If a woman says that she is real busy take her word for it and don call or talk to her again till she calls you.

Calling a woman who says that she is real busy and really is will annoy her and destroy any attraction that she might have had for you.

Calling a woman who says that she is busy, but the truth of the matter is not rally interested in you, will not cause her to want to go out with you.

In the end, you can never really know if a woman is busy or just faking it until she calls you back.

Instead of waiting or worrying about that call, go out and meet other women and continue having a good time, then if she does call you every now and then you might find yourself telling her that you are busy right now if you even her answer her call.